Timing Isn't The Issue




Let’s talk about how our timing’s off.


Maybe you're right, we couldn't have planned this out worse.


It would have been infinitely easier to meet you two years earlier or three years later or in a different space or place or country or time zone. It would have been simpler to meet you in a world where I could wake up nestled tightly in beside you and you could join in each adventure I took on. It would be marvellous to have all our fates aligned and to see the timing play itself out flawlessly.


But I’m inclined to say we ought to count our blessings.


Because here’s the absolute miracle that we cannot allow ourselves to ignore: out of the billions of years that earth has existed for, you and I ended up alive at the exact same time.


I wasn’t born on your 90th birthday. You didn’t die an untimely death at age 3.


I didn’t live as a pauper in the year 400 B.C. You will not spring into existence 500 years into the future. Out of all the centuries, eras, time periods and universes we could have ended up in, we somehow both ended up here.


We ended up in the era with planes and trains and cars and video phone calls and social media. We ended up in the age of relentless communication and instantaneous connection. Of all the possible worlds that we could have gotten stuck in, we found ourselves living in a time when it’s possible to wake up to a good morning text every day from someone who is clear across the world.


And when you look at it that way, it doesn’t seem so bad. When you look at it that way, it doesn’t seem unbearable to wait for a couple more months or a few painstaking years or a single stretch of absence that will eventually be bridged. When you look at it from the angle of the bleak improbability that two people like you and I would ever co-exist, the timing doesn’t seem so wrong at all.


Because really, who are you and I to demand any more from the universe? Who are we to mandate that the stars all align in our favour and the fortunes always cater to our fates? When we chisel it down to probability, we’ve already come out on top here. So it’s only fair we put in some work.


Because the truth about the timing being wrong is that it’s nothing more than the world’s flimsiest reason not to try. It’s the simplest excuse to pack it in. It’s a pre-designed reason to bow out. Saying that the timing is wrong is saying nothing more than ‘You aren’t worth the inconvenience.’


And when it comes to you, that is untrue.


When it comes to you, I’d wade through limitless eras and time zones and alternate realities and universes trying to find you.


I’d wait for decades or ages or centuries or lifetimes. I’d wait through wars and resolutions and tsunamis and ice ages and apocalypses. I’d wait indefinitely. I’d wait forever.


But the brilliant thing is, I don’t have to do any of that. Because here we are, right now. At this time. In this universe.


And as long as you’re alive here and I’m alive too, the timing is right enough for me.





Photo Credit: Ailera Stone

Comments

  1. that really puts things into perspective, you're absolutely right with the double-meaning of "you aren't worth the inconvenience".

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  2. This gave me shivers, so poet and so true. I have never thought of things in this way! Very eye opening!! X

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  3. Like you put it: the universe has already done so much for you. You two have met out of seven billion people living on this planet. When you think about it, that is so special. Loved this. Your writing is so poetic and amazing <3.

    Love, Eline | www.elinesreturnticket.blogspot.com

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    1. Awww thank you so much Eline :) I agree we're very lucky x

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  4. Hey Anne! Just read this post & omg I know I say this every time, but I swear you are the best writer ever! Your talents are unparalleled! I remember I had similar thoughts to this a while back, but I couldn't find the right words to express them. Reading this post you've done that so perfectly, & it was an absolute joy to read- thank you so much :) xx

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    1. Aww thank you so much Natasha!! This is so unbelievably sweet of you and you've really made me smile :D thank you! xx

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