Millennial Is NOT A Metaphor For Naivety

“It makes sense why all your ideas are so wrong and naïve. It’s because you’re young and you don’t have a clue how the world works. Get back to me in ten or twenty years when you've actually lived enough to experience something.”

These were the words gracing my email inbox the other night.

After reading them, I closed my eyes and took a deep breath. I could feel my frustration travelling from my legs to my fingertips, bubbling up and making me clench my jaw. It's not the first time it's happened to me either.

I know I'm not the first millennial to go through this sort of experience. We all felt the effect of that article in TIME calling as all lazy and self-entitled, and most of us know what it's like to have someone roll their eyes, shake their head, or chastise you via social media because you’re just a young person and thus you apparently know nothing about life.

I don’t get it. But maybe I don’t get it because it’s not true.

Being young doesn't make you clueless. It just means that you have different life experiences than others. It doesn't mean you don’t know what life is like. It doesn't mean you haven’t gone through difficult things, challenging things, wonderful things. And it doesn't mean you haven’t lived.

I'm not an entitled girl by any means. In fact, I try my best to live my life humbly. To not think I'm a person worthy of praise or better because of what I believe or what I've gone through/haven’t gone through.

But I’ll be damned if someone thinks my existence isn't validated because their life experiences, opinions, or beliefs are different. What I've experienced and who I am—those are things I own with pride. It doesn't matter my age. What matters is that I'm a real person with real experiences that no one else can justify but me.

Maybe it’s a millennial thing, and thus I have self-confidence in who I am. Or maybe it’s just the fact that I AM young and have pride in this. But being young doesn't make me stupid and naïve. It doesn't mean I haven’t gone through my tough times and fought my own battles. It doesn't mean I don’t ‘have a clue how the world works’ or that my perspective and life experiences are ‘wrong.’

I know I don’t know everything about the world. But I don’t claim to know everything.

I express and write and speak on ideas that are personal to me and to my life experiences. Which despite the age gap, can still be relevant and can still translate to others going through the same thing, no matter my or their age.

Sure I’m only seventeen. I haven’t been married, haven’t been divorced (and hopefully won’t ever), I haven’t had children, and haven’t been a single mum. There’s hundreds, thousands of things I don’t know personally, haven’t yet gone through, or maybe will never go through.

But that’s okay.

Because I don’t claim to be anyone but myself. My young, passionate, confident yet humble self. Someone who has gone through her share of things and feels strongly about them, regardless of the fact that I’m still in my teens

And regardless of what someone writes through an angry, cowardly email, I’m proud to be who I am.

So to my fellow millennials, or anyone who’s been told that they ‘don’t know how the world works’: You can’t let people call you foolish, just because you’re young and still trying to navigate through life. And you sure as hell can’t let someone define you or comment negatively on what you've gone through.

You are a person with a story, a story that can’t be read just by looking at you. A story that’s yours to own. And yours to tell.



  1. I love this post. You are sooo right. Of course I don't have as many experiences as my mum (i am 21), but that doesn't mean I am not capable of having an opinion or makes me naive. Actually, I think we "millenials" have had other experiences and are exposed to difficult things too. For example, we have to deal with much more social media pressure, body shaming... I don't know about estatistics, but I will say that we are more likely to suffer from eating disorders or we feel more pressure to be everything in the shortest time possible... I don't know if I explain myself... I am just trying to say that of course we don't have as many experiences as older people, but we have also experienced othee stuff that makes us strong and wiser

    1. Yes!! I get exactly what you mean :) thank you so much x

  2. Couldn't have said this any better. People experience things at different times of their lives. I'm pretty sure there are older people who haven't experienced the things we millennials have faced and vice versa. I definitely believe we should value those who are older and their wisdom throughout life, but that doesn't mean it's okay to discredit us millennials and what we've learned. Great post!!

    Kathlyn |

    1. Yes! Exactly :) thank you so much Kathlyn x


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